Hispanic/Latino, Native American, Asian, Middle Eastern, Pacific Islander, White/Caucasian, South American, East Indian
What type of Television programs do I enjoy watching most?
Sport, News, Nature/wildlife, Films, Educational, Drama, Documentary, Current Affairs/Debates, Comedy
I enjoy spending free time
With family, Playing with my pet, Shopping, Visiting a museum or gallery, Pursuing a hobby, Taking a walk, Among friends, In Nature, Dancing in night clubs, Playing on the computer, Browsing the Internet, Watching TV or a movie
Auto racing, Baseball, Basketball, Bowling, Football, Olympic sports
Forms of entertainment that I enjoy
Bars/pubs, Board Games
, Casino/gambling, Dance clubs, Fine dining, Movies, Country Music, Pop Music, Music Rock, Poetry, Surfing the web, TV Educational/news, TV Entertainment
Other hobbies or interests
cars, collecting, dogs, family/kids, gardening, home improvement, news/politics/events, shopping, travelling
Responses to some questions
How would you describe yourself?
My Dearest SOUL Mate, You ask me how I would describe myself? Hmmm! Well let me start with who I am!! I am James and I live in the "GREATEST COUNTRY" in the FREE WORLD, and that is NO DOUBT, the United States of America!!! I am from a town of approximately 65,000 people, & it is called Monroe,Louisiana! I am very PROUD of where I am from, & I would hope that ANYONE that lives ANYWHERE on EARTH would be proud of their OWN COUNTRY!! I was born, & raised here! I have traveled 48 of the 50 states in the USA, with the exception of Alaska & Hawaii, which I hope to do someday! I love where I am from & have lived brief periods of time in Miami, Florida (18 months), & in Los Angeles, California for two years, seven months! I have been EVERYWHERE on the MAIN LAND in the USA! I traveled because of my job as a Catastrophe Adjuster, but after 13 years of doing this, I head back home & start a BUSINESS! But, I still LOVE to travel, so I have not given up on travel for leisure!
I have my OWN business now after MANY years on the road! I have a Tree Service in my home town & do quite well! My family has a GOOD name here & I have PLENTY of business! I work the Tree Service about nine months a year, because it is SEASONAL and VERY slow in the winter, & so I play in the winter time!!! I just sold the home that I was living in for the past six years, & have bought a house & 46+ acres that is about 5 minutes from town! So, I call it Town & Country! It is like being in the Country with the convenience of town, ONLY a rocks throw away!
I will make this PLANE & SIMPLE!!!!! I seek a woman that will TRUST me with her HEART & SOUL, 100%!!! And, by doing this, SHE will OWN my HEART & SOUL, & I will have HERS!!! If a couple has each others HEARTS & SOULS, there is NOTHING in the world that can KEEP them or TEAR them APART!!! When this happens to a couple, you are SOUL MATES, & along with the HEART, you will have the SOUL as well! I sound TOO GOOD to be TRUE right? Well, here is what I will tell you, that I have only been "IN LOVE" twice in my life, through MANY women that I have seen or dated, but I have NEVER been able to give a woman MY SOUL, my heart yes, but NONE ever gathered the SOUL! AND MOST IMPORTANT IN ALL THAT I HAVE JUST SAID IS THE FACT THAT WHEN YOU DO HAVE YOUR SOUL MATE, YOU WILL KNOW THIS, BECAUSE THERE WILL BE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE THAT YOU WILL HAVE NEVER EXPERIENCE BEFORE AT ANY POINT IN YOUR LIFE!!! MOST IMPORTANT IS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, & YOU WILL KNOW THAT YOU HAVE FOUND THE SOUL MATE, THAT HAS CAPTURED YOUR HEART, YOUR SOUL, YOUR MIND, & YOUR BODY! The first LOVE was when I was in my very early twenties & I was naive to the fact that if you can't trust your partner, then you should NOT be with her! This lasted four years, & she NEVER gave me the opportunity to give her my SOUL! ONLY THE HEART!
I don't seek a "RELATIONSHIP"!!!! I seek my SOUL MATE, & then WIFE! When I have found my SOUL MATE, them I have found relationship & WIFE!
I am interested in God's Creations, the beauty of the LANDSCAPE, trees, flowers, rocks, His animals, etc. I love sports- football, basketball, auto racing, etc. I love to dance, dining out, sitting in Jacuzzi & sipping a drink while watching a romantic movie with my SOUL MATE, having romantic outing with my QUEEN- picnics, the zoo, walks in the woods on my land, sitting on my patio and and watching the animals, the beach, site-seeing, etc. I enjoy hunting & fishing!
I am UP for ANYTHING? I do NOT mind public intimacy AT ALL, but I will respect my LADY on how far this will go!!!!!! I am NOT going to drop down on a public sidewalk, & start making love OF COURSE. But, kissing, hand on butt, dirty dancing, etc., I can handle this!!!
There is ONLY one WAY to TREAT a LADY, & that is as a QUEEN! I will lavish YOU with LOVE & AFFECTION, FIRST & FOREMOST!!! For without the LOVE & AFFECTION, NOTHING else MATTERS!!!! I want to FEEL appreciated, & YOU will be PROMISED THE SAME!!!! But, I do too like to lavish MY QUEEN with GIFTS & SURPRISES!!! Surprises are MY FAVORITE, because I get to see the joy on MY QUEEN'S FACE, when she realizes that I have set-up a romantic evening in the bathroom, in the Jacuzzi with a love story in the DVD play of the TV above the Jacuzzi, her FAVORITE drink ready for her, & her FAVORITE snack foods ONLY an arm length away from her position in the Jacuzzi! And if you have found a man that has treated YOU await your RESPONSE!!! Sincerely, James!
How would you describe your ideal partner?
I want a LADY!!!! A LADY is DIFFERENT! I want a LADY that is & will LOVE ME UNCONDITIONALLY, with HIGH MORALS & VALUES, KIND, CARING, LOVING, SINCERE, FAITHFUL, LOYAL, TRUSTWORTHY, INSPIRING, ADMIRABLE, SIMPLE, FREE-SPIRIT, a sense of HUMOR (PLEASE make me LAUGH), & AN ANIMAL IN THE BEDROOM!!!! Ok, I HAD to add the LAST one!!! And Lastly, BEAUTY is DEFINITELY a QUALITY, but it is MERELY a BONUS, because if the LADY has ALL that I have listed ABOVE, I have for CERTAIN, found my SOUL MATE & my WIFE!!!!
If you knew the world was going to end in 30 days, what would you do?
I would sell off ALL of my worldly possessions, buy a Yacht, grab my SOUL MATE, buy a 30 day suppliy of the finest foods, hit the high seas, & find a deserted Island!!! We would make love MANY MANY times a day, eating in between our love making for the ENERGY! We would make love as the sun came up in the east & as it set in the west!! We would slow our love making process on the 28th & 29th day, as to save ALL of OUR ENERGY for day 30!!!! I would hope that we would die at the EXACT moment with my SOUL MATE on top of me, & both of us are in the middle of an orgasm!! And, why the hell NOT, I would want to have my FAVORITE candy bar hanging from my mouth!!! Because, if you are going to die, YOU SHOULD BOTH DIE HAPPY!!!
If you had 10 million dollars to spare, what would you do with it?
I would buy a secluded ISLAND in the Pacific Ocean, & fill it with all of God's amazing Animals, & have my SOUL MATE there to enjoy the FRUITS of our Labors!
How often, and from whom do you ask advice?
I Am a Do it yourselfer!!! I run my busniess this way, & have ALWAYS been SUCCESSFUL! But, if it is a decision that required another voice, I would rely on my SOUL MATE for her advice!
What quality do you value most in the people of your gender?
I admire MEN that are HONEST, LOYAL, TRUSTWORTHY, CONFIDENT, & are GENEROUS will there monies to people whom are in NEED!! And, MOST of ALL, I admire a man that is GOD LIKE, & will LOVE his NEIGHBOR, as himself!
What quality do you value most in the opposite sex?
I admire WOMEN that are HONEST, LOYAL, TRUSTWORTHY, CONFIDENT, & are GENEROUS will there monies to people whom are in NEED!! And, MOST of ALL, I admire a woman that is GOD LIKE, & will LOVE his NEIGHBOR, as himself! I want a PASSIONATE woman as well, that can SATIFY ALL of my SEXUAL WANTS & DESIRES, & I would promise to her that she would be reward with the SAME! To have a woman orgasm by a CERTAIN touch, feel, etc. is just as plesurable to me, as if I had had the orgasm for myself!!! I love to see a woman get off at the touches of my HANDS & BODY!!!
What is a recent prominent event in your life, and how has it affected you?
My second LOVE, was only six months ago, since OUR split up. We were together for 10 1/2 years, but we NEVER married, & this is why we parted ways. We were IN LOVE for the first 2 1/2 years of relationship, than her parents split up, because the mother was cheating on the father, & the father came to me for comfort, & I lose ALL respect for mother! And, her mother told her OWN daughter that if you don't have anything to do with the man that I cheated on your father with, then I will NOT have a relationship with you, HER VERY OWN DAUGHTER!!! So, I despised the Mother EVEN MORE!!! And, the father was going to beat-up the new guy at the wedding, so wedding did NOT happen, & she (MY LOVE) hung in limbo over marriage for about eight years, think that there was something wrong with her, & was NOT, but only the circumstances of the mother! So, I hope you get this! And in the END, we had grown distant because of her mother, & she ended up doing the SAME THING as the mother!! She met a guy on the Internet & fell in LOVE with him & me, & ask would I let her go see him, to see if it was right for her! I laugh & WE WERE DONE!!! I believe that she would tell you the truth about me!!! In 10 1/2 years, I NEVER lie to her, nor did I EVER LAY my head on another pillow, in a bed, next to ANOTHER woman! I can't stand a THEFT, A CHEAT, or A LIAR!!! But the ONLY thing that she will CLAIM that I LIED to her about was the FACT that I DID ask her to MARRY me, but DID NOT follow through, & I have explained this to you in GREAT detail! But, I made MANY offers to marry on the Islands with NO family, but she would NEVER commit to this, & probably because of her mother! But, I am over & past this, & can TRULY say that even though she did what she did in the END, I hope that ALL goes well for her! We were both in a TRAP for the last eight years of OUR relationship because of a SELFISH mother! So, I am glad to be done with this!
What is the best advice that you will give to your children?
I give this Advise, & is the same advise as I would give my SOUL MATE as well! Love GOD above ALL, & love that Neighbor as Thy Self! And, if you do this, you have fulfilled what God has ask of YOU, & YOU shall insure a spot in HEAVEN for YORUSELF!!
What has produced the biggest impression (shock) on you?
People SHOOK me!! I have found that ALL over the WORLD, through my use of the INTERNET, that the people are the MOST SHOCKING!!! So MANY DISHONEST people, & people that will try to scam there fellow HUMAN BEING all in the name of MONEY!!! I know God looks down on his WONDERFUl CREATION, & He is SAd & Crys at the DISHONEST, LYING, CHEATING people that He Created, & gave the the FREE WILL to do the WROGHT thing, but it is TOO EASY for them to do the wrong thing, & this is what they choose!!! SAD WORLD!!!
The last books that you read?
I believe it was a True Story About the Serial Killer, Ted Bundy.
What are your goals now?
My GOAL HERE IS TO seek a woman that will TRUST me with her HEART & SOUL, 100%!!! And, by doing this, SHE will OWN my HEART & SOUL, & I will have HERS!!! If a couple has each others HEARTS & SOULS, there is NOTHING in the world that can KEEP them or TEAR them APART!!! When this happens to a couple, you are SOUL MATES, & along with the HEART, you will have the SOUL as well! I sound TOO GOOD to be TRUE right? Well, here is what I will tell you, that I have only been "IN LOVE" twice in my life, through MANY women that I have seen or dated, but I have NEVER been able to give a woman MY SOUL, my heart yes, but NONE ever gathered the SOUL! AND MOST IMPORTANT IN ALL THAT I HAVE JUST SAID IS THE FACT THAT WHEN YOU DO HAVE YOUR SOUL MATE, YOU WILL KNOW THIS, BECAUSE THERE WILL BE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE THAT YOU WILL HAVE NEVER EXPERIENCE BEFORE AT ANY POINT IN YOUR LIFE!!! MOST IMPORTANT IS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, & YOU WILL KNOW THAT YOU HAVE FOUND THE SOUL MATE, THAT HAS CAPTURED YOUR HEART, YOUR SOUL, YOUR MIND, & YOUR BODY!
Who do you admire?
My deceased Grandfather (Paw) & my Living MOTHER! Two God Fearing people whom taught me my GOOD CHRISTIAN VALUES!!!
Do you have a lot of friends?
I have LOTS of FRIENDS!!! LOTS!
What qualities do you dislike most in those of your gender?
A Cheat, A Theft, & a LIAR!!
What qualities do you dislike most in the people of the opposite sex?
A Cheat, A Theft, & a LIAR!!
What would you like to change in yourself?
I would like to change my age back to 18 years of age, & know than what I know now!!! But, that aint going to happen, now is it!!!
What are your weaknesses?
My failures that I could have changed or done something about, but didn't!!
What are your strengths ?
I am a honest, kind, caring, & generous man!
How do friends view you?
Good man, & Life of the Party!
How do acquaintances view you?
Good man, & Life of the Party!
What are your favourite games?
Sports- Football & Basketball! I love playing board games as well!
Who are your favourite writers and poets?
I write my OWN poetry!
What kinds of music do you like?
I love pop, rock, country, some rap (Colt Ford), jazz, etc
Coming to AMERICA, The Notebook, Pretty Woman, legends of the Fall, The Color Purple, etc
What is your favourite fairy-tale?
I make MY OWN Fairy Tale with the SOUL MATE!!!
What is your favourite activity or hobby?
And for a hobby, I like to put together LARGE jigsaw puzzles! I had put together the WORLD"S LARGEST PUZZLE at the time which was 24,000 pieces, but now they have a 32,000 piece puzzle, so I will attempt it later! I put the 24,000 piece puzzle together in 110 hours! I was putting 2,000 piece at the age of FIVE !
What is your dream job?
Tell us about your dream partner.
I don't NEED a LADY, I NEED a SOUL MATE!!!! We ALL need to feel LOVED, & NOT just the type of LOVE that you experience from a MOTHER!!! A mother's love is "UNCONDITIONAL", & I have ONLY found this love from ONE human being, & that is MY MOTHER, WHOM IS NEAR & DEAR to ME! I have also experienced unconditional love from my pet doggies over the years!!! If you notice, DOG spelt backwards is GOD, & I TRULY believe that GOD put dogs on earth so that a person can experience UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, if they NEVER experience it from ANOTHER HUMAN!!! I know a LOT of people that have NEVER experience UNCONDITIONAL LOVE OF ANY KIND, & this is SAD!!! So, I too am VERY DEEP!!! And, so I ask you, do you have UNCONDITIONAL LOVE to GIVE, because I do, to my SOUL MATE!